As anyone who has spent longer than three seconds on an app will tell you, gay guys are very direct. You should have confidence to approach your partner about them they can only say no. Your private predilections aren’t as out there as you’d think. Gay men, we’re like an encyclopaedia with well-thumbed pages and very tiny writing, front and back.
Plus, and this is key, literally every single one of your girlfriends who ever had a gay best friend (so common they invented an initialism for it – GBF) has told them what you’re like in the sack. But in fact, we sleep with blokes all the time so we can tell you a) whether you’re any good and b) what you should be doing. Heterosexual dudes might think they’ve nothing to learn about having sex with women, least of all from gay mates who have either never done it or have sworn off it for good.
